Language Learning: The miracle of Connotations

Have you heard the idiom "Go in one ear and out the other"

In one ear, out the other

Normally this could be a problem in character or something chemical like sleep depravation, but for 2nd language learners like us that idiom is essentially the biggest problem we face.

The reason for this is easy enough to understand.  It's because of a lack of reinforcement of the words in our conscience. Words and sentences we hear and learn are immediately forgotten by our brains.  It slip past our brains like water in our hands.  Though we are gifted with understanding, there is just no traction to hold the memories in.  One more "anomaly" is that when we try to talk the language, example Japanese, the words trickle out of our mouth but it feels like someone is talking for us.  As if you are being controlled like a puppet by someone.  This is because your brain's motor nerves are not synchronized with how it feels.brain
Another problem is when language learners have to repeat what they said, or at least the last part of what they said.  This is because the learner is reaffirming to his/herself the meaning of the words that are alien to him/her. 

Scientific studies have been published explaining about it, but the literal world has already coined the phrase for this.  

It is CONNOTATIONS.  

What a word makes us "feel" aside from it's precise meaning.  By-the-way, a word's precise meaning is called denotation.  To visualize this explanation better, we'll call actions our "Mind", while how we feel is our "Heart."

Example is the English word Egg.  What do you feel when you hear it?  For me, I feel it's slimy, cheap, but delicious.  I can smell the pungency of rotten eggs, and feel doubt on an egg's freshness until I crack and scramble it.  But in Japanese, it's called Tamago 卵 which in my heart doesn't feel anything else aside from it being pricey but delicious when you order Tamagoyaki 卵焼き at a Japanese restaurant.  With this, we notice the value of the word in our brain varies different

Egg VS Egg

depending on the language.  Another simple word is Mother, or Ha'ha 母 in Japanese.  Both have different connotations.

Mother VS Mother

That's why poems are so strong because the words it uses are so dense with connotation.  It makes you feel so much with very little words.  In contrast, a foreign language seems cold and robotic when we read and speak it for the first time.

I suppose there are many solutions to this, but personally, I found that practice and repetition enforces word connotation.  To put it simply, it's all about synchronization.  That is, using the mind to utter the words then letting the heart feel it's value.  This is probably when the data processing in our mind melds with the chemistry in our body that gives birth to connotation.  Just practicing every time, you find later on that even simple words have an impact on you.  
A good way to teach yourself is to get a good recording tool.

 I use Audacity which was free when I got it.  I'm not sure if it's still free now.  audacity

While watching a 20 min. video, I record my voice as I talk continuously about it using 2 sentence pattern and a few vocabulary.  Then, I spend another 20 min being a teacher to myself by listening to the recording.  I correct myself in my grammar and pronunciation.  Then I repeat the process until I am content. After that, I do other recordings where I do free talk and apply all that I've learned.  

 

And though it's a grueling task, oddly enough I find it satisfying and sustains me to keep practicing.  The reason for this is something I found fascinating, which I can write on my next summary.  Thank you very much for reading!