It is so sad when a person you like a lot is untidy. I happened to live with such a sloppy person and I might say that's terrible.

On the one hand, you'd like to have a peaceful relationship with your partner or neighbor or relative, but on the other hand, it's simply impossible. You always get mad seeing how messy everything around you is, and nothing can change this. That's the nature of a person.

I spent a lot of time arguing, teaching, begging and scolding. Nothing could help even a little. There were just two ways to deal with that. I could have done everything myself, or could have left. Eventually, the relationship I'm describing went bad. 

So, there's no perfection in anyone. Yet it's so sad to see that you have to break up due to someone's unbearable untidiness.

I'm sad and blue.