My colleague have a daughter who is a talented and beautiful girl. This year she graduated from A French university as a IT master, then she got a good job from a overseas-funded  enterprise in Shanghai, so she was very satisfactory, but her parents was not, because she is one child for the family. Her parents ask her to come back hometown to change her career and live with them .  Later she worked as a bank clerk for two months and become upset. This month she quit her job return to Shanghai to look for a new job. Now her parents realized that they have made a mistake for their daughter. They encourage their daughter to choose her own way and make decision by herself. They change their mind that their daughter’s happiness is the most important thing.