Currently, more and more parents prefer to allow children make decision by their own in many cases. Some of parents believe that it would be good to allow children to make their own choices on everyday matter. But some parents hold opposite opinion, they believe that it is important for children to make decisions about matters that affect them. From my point of view, I agree that children can make important decision along with the guide from parents.

First, the children may not independent enough to make important matters, so the guide from parents is necessary for them. Secondly, children should pay the attention on what really matter to them rather then make choices on everyday matters. Thirdly, the thinking ability and independence would be cultivated by making choice by themselves. Forth, it would be helpful to them to learn listening the opinions from others. From my experience, my parents even if allow me to make choice which class I want to study after the school, but they still gave me some instructions about how to make important choice. So after I went to different class and talked with different teachers. I decided to take their proposal and choice the class what suitable for me.

Above all, I think love is unconditional, love means respect, accompany and listening. I think the parents should provide necessary advices while the children have no consciousness that distinguished what thing is important to them..