Last Saturday we were talking happily with some great friends that we already knew each other, just before we left, a boy walked to us with dirty words, we were shocked by his talking, he thought all people there in English corner are gay, an elder man told that he came in a wrong place, and pointed out him that gay corner was south of here. The boy insisted that people here all gay, I smelt alcohol as I already tired by climbing in the morning, and I thought it was the time to leave and I don’t want see and hear the boy so I said leave to my friend and we went separately ways home, strange things happened the boy followed me and my daughter. I wanted to ignore because he was insane and I never get along with people like that, if he don’t cross bottom line I want keep away from him.

He was constantly speaking dirty that I hardly remember and can’t copy it, and that annoyed my daughter, she burst out and shouting at him, I told her don’t shout just keep on walking but she couldn’t stop. We stopped there, quarrying very closely, after we walked roundabout the corner only then he went away.

On the way home my daughter talked to me dancing seemed useless I maybe should take kungfu lesson at this summer holiday.

I never met an unpleasant occasion like this, I didn’t know what I should act, I thought just walk away.

If it’s too hard to reason with someone is intoxicated, so you cannot really solve much in that state, but it is better to not be surprised, identify what is happening and simply go on your day without someone affecting your mood.

 To be honest I thought of this idea for a second if he dare make other physical movement I will beat him, and I wish he never existed, I saw part of me not that pretty, a violent me.

I don't have discriminations towards anyone, they have their rights to live the way they want to, but he should respect others.

In bible we’ve taught love our family and neighbors, I once thought I might have that fraternity, reality always tells that’s not true, the truth is that I’m very selfish I like only good and kid people, help only those who I have no bad impressions.

Once my friend Helen told me our full society have the responsibilities towards each of the ‘bad people’, and Andy told it is like smog, society creates but doesn't want to see it, nobody is created naturally a bad individual, we are victims of ourselves, evil feeds on evil, and it will come back to us even if we try to ignore.

That drunk young man, might has been a victim of someone, robbed of good upbringing, you cannot ignore the side affects of society, someone always gets a very unfair life, the worst people, the worst neighborhoods, the neglected marginalized, gangs, they all are victims of society, problem always started when "we don't want to deal with them", but you will sooner or later like that day.

Even if you are a good person, intoxicating will make you behave very wrong, when the mind and body are not balanced, people always feel they need something. But you don't need to drink or smoke to hurt your body. Often people say they don't smoke or drink but their body is in poor health, no exercise, no eating good things. Also addiction is not limited to smoking drinking or drugs, many of the people are addicted to bad things that are not those, addiction also is unbalanced, because body lacks something. Teaching by action has more impact than with words. Everyone has done badness, we have done bad things to others, hurt others, lied to others, some more some less, nobody has not. It’s easy to call someone bad, in this case Jesus said: Do not criticize anybody if you don't want to be criticized, it is not our job to judge others, if we judge others then we will be judged as well.

If you think of yourself as independent from everything else, you will be disappointed we are all related, If we don't care for one another we will always pay the price for that, always, but yet, it's not easy, if it was easy there won't be any problems in the world.

Jesus was not the first to say that, many people have said the same in many cultures, even china

When you are upset with someone or something first try to see the whole picture and positive way you can react, act the opposite way and that will have more influence on the other person (not with drunk people, just anyone even family).

It’s not so difficult to understand, but very difficult to act, I thought I’m just a small woman, I sometimes want to stay in my shell, why I should care so much, I already got enough to deal with besides I doubt whether bad person also got a human heart, but I love all these ideas like fresh wind blow me up.